Ideal Connector Traits - Part Four
The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away. - Pablo Picasso
The speed and scope of your career-transition success depend on those in your inner circle. Why bring anyone in who doesn’t demonstrate a commitment to you coming out on top?
An ideal connector cares about your accomplishment. As already covered, they understand your goals, are reliable and know the importance of recruiters.
Their interest in your achievement will also come through in the questions they ask. These questions won’t be disguised compliments. They’ll be like challenges. Seeking an answer, you’ll feel you’re in the midst of a tough workout.
For example: What are your next steps?
This is a simple inquiry. But the response isn’t easy. Exploring this topic uncovers short-term and long-term steps. It uncovers weaknesses and strengths. It helps shape a plan spanning months, beginning with what you’ll do tomorrow.
An ideal connector is going to put these questions to you. And they won’t shy away when your reply is lacking. They want you to grow. This means you’re not always going to be satisfied or feel comfortable. Those sensations will come later. You’re in the midst of an intense change. If you take it easy, you’ll never make it.
Here are other questions you should hear from a connector dedicated to seeing you win:
Ideal connectors are drawn to these subjects because they’re motivated to see you do well. One question could be all you cover for multiple conversations. The more they know about you the better they’ll be able to put you in touch with the right people.
What questions has an ideal connector asked you? How did their approach to discussions illustrate how much they want you to succeed?